1i just want to say something by force...lol, anyways this is "Conversation with a Babe 1" i'd like to know what you think about it...
you'd notice i just jumped into it...lol, thats how i am, sorry...and this conversation is by instant messenger,over 2 days,due to my slow internet connections...
so here goes
For Conversation 2:
conversations with a babe 2 (zephi)
For Conversation 3:
Conversations With A Babe 3 (OK)
[13:29] 18andabove: lola...wat do u think i shd do?
[13:29] 18andabove: theres this chick really tripping for me but doent no ow to tell me...
[13:29] lola: 2
[13:29] 18andabove: and she has a 8yr old son
[13:29] lola: hw did u get 2 no dat shes trippin 4 u
[13:29] lola: is dat a problem
[13:30] 18andabove: ahn ahn...i no ...u see we used to date....b4 she became pregnant years ago...
[13:30] lola: so
[13:31] lola: cos shes after one u cant date her
[13:31] 18andabove: she shows it...
[13:31] 18andabove: yeah i cant...so how do i tell her or show her that am not interested
[13:31] lola: so if u like her
[13:32] lola: n feels shes responsible y nt
[13:32] lola: y re u nt interested
[13:32] 18andabove: maybe because i dont like her that much anymore...
[13:33] 18andabove: well not enough to want to marry her
[13:33] lola: then let her b
[13:34] 18andabove: shes the one thats interested o...not me...
[13:34] lola: tell her ure nt
[13:34] lola: show her ure nt
[13:34] 18andabove: okay and she wont feel bad
[13:35] lola: nope
[13:35] lola: jus let her understand dats all
[13:36] lola: but pls if u ve 2 give reason dont say cos she has a son
[13:36] 18andabove:wld u date someone that has a 8 yr old son?
[13:37] lola: y nt
[13:37] lola: if d woman s no more in his life
[13:37] lola: n i think he likes mi 4 real
[13:37] 18andabove: well thats u sha...but the son is there joining them together
[13:37] lola: nt only 4 mi 2 mother his chld
[13:41] lola: cant u tell a gal off
[13:41] 18andabove: ow do i do that?
[13:42] lola: show all d negative signs
[13:42] lola: or pretend u ave a gal
[13:42] lola: n talk 2 her abt her
[13:43] lola: but b careful nt 2 mix things up
[13:45] 18andabove: ok...o...thanks again...but u girls her funny o...
[13:46] 18andabove: one of u called me a small boy yesterday when i said i wanted to ask her out
[13:46] lola: lol
[13:46] lola: show her dat ure nt
[13:47] 18andabove: so how do u change that impression when thats already ow she thinks?
[13:48] lola: whenever ure wit her think high talk responsible
[13:48] lola: dnt over do it
[13:50] lola: then ull b worse than a small boy by then
[13:53] 18andabove: ok...i,ve u called someone a small boy b4? or looked at them that way?
[13:53] lola: yes
[13:53] lola: cos there a lot out there
[13:54] 18andabove: lol...i thought am only a small boy if i dont want to take responsibilty
[13:54] lola: nope
[13:55] 18andabove: so?the way the person talks and behaves abi
[13:55] lola: yes o
[13:56] 18andabove: and are there small girls too?
[13:56] lola: of course
[13:56] lola: but its better 4 a gal 2 b called 1 than a guy
[13:58] lola: lol
[14:01] 18andabove: i almost cldnt eat...because there's nothing worse...well except if she says u cant do...lol
[14:24] 18andabove: BUT ITS REALLY NOT EASY FOR US WORKING CLASS TO MEET SOMEONE ABI?
[14:25] lola: abi
[14:29] 18andabove: MY PROBLEM IS EVEN MEETING A BABE THAT WILL STIMULATE ME NOT SEXUALLY BUT INTELLECTUALLY
[14:29] lola: lol
[14:29] 18andabove: ABI THERE ARE MORE DUMB GIRLS OUT THERE...NO OFFENCE O
[14:30] lola: i bliff u
[14:30] 18andabove: THANK U OJARE...
[14:30] 18andabove: IMAGINE I INVITED A BABE OUT FOR A BOOK READING,SHE WAS ASKING ME WHAT THAT IS?
[14:31] 18andabove: SHE SAYS SHE'D PREFER CLUBBING...LOL
[14:31] lola: dnt blame her
[14:31] lola: u wld ave told her
[14:31] lola: cant u teach her 2 b better
[14:31] 18andabove: LOL...BOOK READING...COME ON...
[14:31] lola: u also want a ready made gal
[14:32] lola: at least help her out
[14:32] 18andabove: NO NOT A READY MADE GIRLFRIEND AND NOT A SMALL GIRL THAT THINKS ABT ONLY SHOES AND BAGS
[14:32] lola: when it gets unbearale then u can complain
[14:33] lola: u can make her 2 b wat u want 4m a gal
[14:33] 18andabove: COULD U CLARIFY THAT?
[14:34] lola: TEACH HER
[14:34] lola: help in buildin her
[14:34] 18andabove: U DONT MEAN THAT DO U?LOL
[14:35] lola: im serious
[14:35] 18andabove: SHA I CALLED THE WHOLE THING OFF, WE CANT JUST BLEND...
[14:35] lola: hw many gals will u call off
[14:36] lola: hw many ave u met nw
[14:37] 18andabove: I MEET WOMEN ALMOST EVERYDAY
[14:37] lola: so
[14:38] 18andabove: SO?
[14:38] lola: hw long will u kip lookin 4 d rite one
[14:38] lola: 4 ever
[14:38] lola: jus cos theres no rite one
[14:38] lola: simple
[14:38] lola: u make use of d one u c
[14:39] 18andabove: UNTIL I GET HER....LOL...BUT REALLY...WE NEED SOMEONE WE CAN BLEND WITH ABI?
[14:39] 18andabove: NO I SAID SEX DOESNT DRIVE ME AGAIN...REALLY
[14:39] lola: when will dat come
[14:39] lola: ok i bliff u
[14:39] lola: AMEN
[14:39] 18andabove: HOPEFULLY SOON
[14:40] 18andabove: AMEN O...
[14:40] 18andabove: APART FROM WEDDINGS WERE IS IT SURE BANKER THAT U CAN GET A SINGLE BABE
[14:41] lola: churches
[14:41] 18andabove: AH...CHURCHES KE?...LOL
[14:42] lola: no b u ask question
[14:42] 18andabove: LOL...ALL THOSE ONES NEED DELIVERANCE O...LOL
[14:42] lola: ok
[10:34] 18andabove: so apart from watching tv, what does a girl...sorry lady like u do, when u come back from work
[10:36] lola: get my dress ready 4 d next day
[10:39] 18andabove: i thought u'd say "start getting ready for a date"
[10:39] lola: lol
[10:39] lola: na beans
[10:44] 18andabove: so lets say u were going for one, what preparations wld u make?
[10:45] lola: my hair s 2 b ready
[10:45] lola: my shoes n dress in place
[10:45] lola: n my phone well charged
[10:46] 18andabove: &?
[10:47] lola: my makeup
[10:48] 18andabove: in that order abi?
[10:49] lola: mostly
[10:57] 18andabove: ok...so wld u want to go where he likes, or where u like?
[10:57] lola: we both ave 2 put each other in2 consideration
[11:00] 18andabove: where wld ur own ideal location be?
[11:00] lola: it depends
[11:00] 18andabove: okay...
[11:01] lola: mayb d central 2 help each other out
[11:01] 18andabove: ok..so he's car,a cab,a bus or u guys trek...lol
[11:02] lola: i said central so we both come on r own
[11:05] lola: talkin abt d traffic
[11:06] lola: n proximity 2 other places
[11:11] lola: IM NT A DATE PERSON
[11:11] lola: USUALLY WILL CHOICE SOME WHERE JUS 2 TALK
[12:06] 18andabove: okay...shey u know c?
[12:06] lola: yes
[12:06] 18andabove: shey u no where she is now?
[12:07] lola: no
[12:11] 18andabove: okay...i used to really like her then...but was really scared too
[12:11] lola: so nw u want 2 ask her out
[12:12] 18andabove: yeah if its still possible...lol
[12:13] lola: its nt
[12:13] 18andabove: we often think when a ladies the way she is...they're no go areas..
[12:13] lola: cos i was told dat shes nw a contractor 4 one oil conmpany
[12:15] lola: i dn no o
[12:17] 18andabove: but really...with women is there a no go area...
[12:17] lola: one has 2 no his or her limit
[12:18] 18andabove: especially when it comes to dating women like that abi...
[12:18] lola: brb
[12:18] 18andabove: asking them out 1st wld be like eating raw pepper
[12:24] lola: thank God u no
[12:24] 18andabove: but its possible abi...
[12:24] lola: yes
[12:26] 18andabove: maybe i shd have taken my chances then...at worst she'll say no and i'll never ask anyone out again...lol
[12:26] lola: ure on ur own
[12:28] 18andabove: lol...sha where were we b4....emm...okay so in what direction wld u want the conversation to go...when u guys are talking
[12:30] lola: we talk abt every thing dat comes 2 mind
[12:30] 18andabove: SO WHAT WLD BE A CONVERSATION KILLER
[12:31] lola: when we start goin personal
[12:32] 18andabove: BUT THATS THE WHOLE ESSENCE OF THE DATE, AINT IT?
[12:36] lola: yes n no
[12:36] 18andabove: OKAY?
[12:37] lola: ok
[12:39] 18andabove: SO WLD A KISS ON THE 1ST NIGHT BE IN ORDER?
[12:40] lola: no
[12:40] 18andabove: AHN AHN...BUT THATS THE WAY IT ENDS IN MOVIES
[12:41] lola: u said it all movies
[12:41] 18andabove: BUT IT SHD APPLY IN NORMAL CASES TOO
[12:41] lola: it doesnt
[12:44] 18andabove: OKAY SO IF HE MADE AN ATTEMPT,HE'D PROBABLY GET A SLAP...LOL
[12:45] lola: nope
[12:45] lola: ill jus b disappointed
[12:45] lola: n probably nt call him again
[12:46] 18andabove: "CALL HIM"-I THOUGHT HE'S SUPPOSED TO CALL
[12:46] lola: as in nt b interested any more
[12:48] 18andabove: OK...BUT YOU'LL BE EXPECTING HE'S CALL AFTER THE DATE ABI?
[12:50] lola: yes
[12:54] 18andabove: SO WHEN IS THE CALLING TO EARLY OR TOO LATE...
[12:54] lola: neva 2 early but after dat day 2 late
[12:57] 18andabove: SO WITHIN THE NEXT 12 HRS SHEY
[13:00] lola: yes
[13:01] 18andabove: WLD U EVER CALL A GUY U LIKE AS IN AFTER THE DATE?
[13:02] lola: yes
[13:02] 18andabove: EHN EHN...THATS GOOD...
[13:03] 18andabove: I THOUGHT IF HE WAS INTERESTED IN A FOLLOW UP DATE HE'D CALL?
[13:03] lola: yea
[13:03] lola: jus 2 b sure
[13:04] lola: if he didnt call cos of other impt reasons
[14:54] 18andabove: come to think of it...what do u look out for when a guy approaches u...
[14:55] lola: i luv tall guys
[14:55] lola: if u can come 2 mi then u re very bold
[14:55] lola: cos i no i ave dis snubish look
[14:57] 18andabove: i no u like tall guys...so if its a short person like me...u'll just give me ur best snubish look...lol
[14:57] lola: lol
[14:57] lola: nope i ve 2 look 4 d other thing i may consider a guy
[15:10] 18andabove: ok...wld u go out on a date with anyone that asks u?
[15:11] lola: nope
[15:11] 18andabove: why?
[15:13] 18andabove: sorry am getting ahead of myself...
[15:13] lola: if i dnt like u i cant like any tin u ave 2 offer
[15:14] 18andabove: the question wld be..u're looking at this tall,dark and handsome guy...speaking good english....comfortable...
[15:14] 18andabove: he asks u for a date & u say no....somethings definately wrong...lol
[15:15] lola: u dnt ave 2 say no
[15:16] lola: u jus dont show up
[15:16] 18andabove: ah thats just bad....y dont u just say no...he'll feel a lil bit hurt
[15:16] 18andabove: and thats it..
[15:19] lola: same reason a guy wont tell u when hes tired of u
[15:19] 18andabove: some do...well i do...
[15:38] 18andabove: lol...so like ow many guys ask u out everyday...dont exagerate o...well apart from me
[15:41] lola: it depends
[15:41] lola: at times no 1
[15:42] 18andabove: okay lets say a week...
[16:34] 18andabove: did u know that...the average single person goes on 22 dates, has 3 one-night-stands and three serious relationships before "settling down with The One."
[16:34] 18andabove: so ow do u rate...?
[16:36] lola: dnt no
[16:36] lola: cant count
[16:36] 18andabove: its a lie...lol
[16:37] lola: im serious
[16:38] 18andabove: ah...its that serious....lol
[16:38] 18andabove: wld u ask someone to marry u...
[16:38] lola: moi
[16:38] lola: no way
[16:39] 18andabove: that wld be too much abi...lol
[16:39] 18andabove: the height of desperation
[16:39] lola: yes o
[16:40] 18andabove: whats the significance of a kiss to u...?
[16:41] lola: of course
[16:41] 18andabove: oh u told me b4...which is more intimate...the kiss or the other thing...lol
[16:42] lola: kissssssssssssssssssssssss
[16:42] lola: any day any time
[16:42] 18andabove: well thats u or most women...
[16:43] lola: mi
[16:44] 18andabove: wld u say thats it for most women too...well i think thats it sha
[16:44] lola: i think so
[16:45] 18andabove: abi....
[16:46] 18andabove: so what 1st comes to ur mind when a guy invites u to his place
[16:47] lola: he wants 2 get cossy
[16:47] 18andabove: lol...
[16:48] 18andabove: and do u want too
[16:49] lola: nope
[16:49] 18andabove: but u go all the same
[16:50] lola: at times
[16:50] lola: jus 2 prove a point
[16:51] 18andabove: wat point?
[16:52] lola: its doesnt ave 2 b sex
[16:53] 18andabove: ok...thats a good one....
[16:54] 18andabove: and u dull the guy...lol
[16:54] lola: abi
[16:55] 18andabove: that kain thing...
[16:55] 18andabove: but ultimately u'd want him to stimulate ur brain shey
[17:00] lola: hw
[17:00] 18andabove: as in talk...sha
[17:01] lola: yes
[10:40] 18andabove: so met anyone new recently?
[10:40] lola: yes n no
[10:41] 18andabove: ok...yes u met a new guy...no u dont want a relationship abi?
[10:42] lola: ure don dey no mi small small
[10:45] 18andabove: ehn ehn...so u think u cant be more than friends?
[10:45] lola: wit d guy
[10:45] lola: or guys
[10:46] 18andabove: i mean with the guy
[10:46] lola: there two of them
[10:47] 18andabove: ok?...the 2 guys...
[10:47] lola: one d only survivin guy i met on line
[10:47] lola: but he s my age mate
[10:47] 18andabove: since when...?
[10:48] lola: then S'S friend
[10:48] 18andabove: that s's friend u were telling me abt?
[10:49] lola: yes o
[10:49] lola: ive nt even cin him
[10:49] lola: so nuttin yet
[10:49] 18andabove: whcih one wld u prefer...
[10:50] lola: d devil u no is better than d scent u jus met i cant say dat proveb applys 2 guys 2
[10:50] lola: so i dnt no
[10:50] lola: let mi tell u d plus they ave
[10:51] lola: guy1 hes tall my star mate n i no he likes mi
[10:51] 18andabove: okay?
[10:51] lola: guy2 hes a muslim he has a jpb hes quiet busy
[10:51] lola: spends time 2 talk 2 mi on phone
[10:51] lola: buy ive nt cin him
[10:51] 18andabove: ok?
[10:52] lola: he hasnt asked mi out sef
[10:52] lola: n he s a man u fan
[10:52] 18andabove: lol...man u fan?
[10:52] lola: yes o
[10:52] 18andabove: does that matter?
[10:53] 18andabove: well so what are the negatives...
[10:53] lola: guy1 hes big(very) he s always complainin
[10:54] lola: he gets angry unnecessarily
[10:54] 18andabove: okay...
[10:54] lola: guy2 he claims hes cin mi b4
[10:54] lola: so i dnt no wat ever he thinks abt mi
[10:55] lola: so nt sure
[10:55] lola: n again ve nt cin him b4 so .........................
[10:55] 18andabove: cing u is not a negative right?
[10:55] lola: mayb i may nt like him
[10:55] 18andabove: have u met the 1st guy?
[10:55] lola: he said he nos mi
[10:55] lola: but i dnt no him
[10:55] lola: so it depends on wat hes bin told
[10:56] lola: YES
[10:56] 18andabove: ok...
[10:56] lola: hes comin close was cos he said he wanted 2 no my kind of person
[10:57] lola: nt dat he was so interested in mi
[10:57] 18andabove: and?
[10:57] lola: and wat?
[10:58] 18andabove: have u done anything with guy 1...even a kiss?
[10:58] lola: nope
[10:59] 18andabove: okay...i think since its s that introduced the 2nd guy....he's safe but either really busy or shy...
[10:59] 18andabove: ow old is he?
[10:59] lola: we were 2 c ytday but cldnt make it
[10:59] lola: i dnt even no
[10:59] lola: dnt no hw 2 ask
[11:00] lola: we spoke 4 so long ytday
[11:00] 18andabove: why wldnt u go out with ur agemate
[11:00] lola: nt dat i cant but when does he intend 2 settle down
[11:01] lola: 3 yrs at least
[11:01] lola: plus my age
[11:01] 18andabove: ok i get...
[11:01] lola: then if hes no more interested by then wat happens
[11:01] 18andabove: have u seen him annoyed? how did he respond when u begged him
[11:01] lola: i told him dis 2
[11:02] 18andabove: and what did he say when u told him?
[11:02] lola: nuttin serious
[11:02] lola: he said he understands but its better i b wit some dat cares 4 mi than some1 older
[11:03] 18andabove: thats true too...
[11:03] lola: so i said he shd decide 4 mi he said i shd give him a chance
[11:04] 18andabove: how did u meet him online...where
[11:04] lola: normal chattin
[11:04] lola: dat was almost 2 yrs ago
[11:04] 18andabove: ok...how many times have u met him since then...
[11:05] 18andabove: was he interested in sex or friendship
[11:05] lola: more than 4 times
[11:05] lola: friendship
[11:05] 18andabove: ok...
[11:05] lola: but he can b raw at times
[11:05] 18andabove: yeah we're all like that ...
[11:06] lola: lol
[11:06] lola: he s my kind of person
[11:06] lola: hes tall very black nt dark n big
[11:07] lola: yes
[11:07] 18andabove: but u dont mind abi,,,
[11:07] lola: yes o
[11:07] lola: luv tall guys 2 peaces
[11:08] 18andabove: well me think u've got ur guy...
[11:08] lola: but hes skoolin n workin 2
[11:08] 18andabove: lets give guy2 a chance to prove why he deserves a damsel like u...
[11:08] 18andabove: ah...which school...
[11:08] 18andabove: lol
[11:08] lola: damsel sha
[11:08] lola: lasu
[11:09] 18andabove: how does he make money...
[11:09] lola: he works an an enginner at one of d shops at computer villiage
[11:09] 18andabove: u're portable...dont u know...u cant just go out with anybody
[11:10] lola: ive bin there thrice
[11:10] 18andabove: engineer sha...shey kon she phone lon tun she
[11:10] lola: yes sir
[11:10] lola: no
[11:10] lola: systems n all dat
[11:10] 18andabove: is it he's shop
[11:10] lola: nope
[11:10] lola: a big company
[11:11] lola: cant remember d name
[11:11] 18andabove: see as u are defending him...lol
[11:11] lola: lol
[11:11] 18andabove: all i want to know is, he wont depend on ur salary abi...
[11:11] lola: ive bin there i no wat he does
[11:11] lola: ope nt
[11:12] 18andabove: ope nt?...ok...so bottom line...u'll have to give guy2 3 chances to meet u...
[11:12] lola: ok
[11:13] 18andabove: and i mean 3 chances...if he doesnt make it...he doesnt deserve u, no matter what he says...
[11:13] 18andabove: let him set up the date...u just hint him...
[11:13] lola: wat if i dnt like him
[11:13] lola: as in appearance
[11:13] 18andabove: and we'll take it from there...
[11:14] 18andabove: u havent met him yet...we''ll answer that when we meet him...
[11:14] lola: ok
[11:14] 18andabove: thats y i said meet him 3 times...kapish
[11:14] lola: he said saturday
[11:14] lola: ok
[11:14] 18andabove: ok...dont say anything abt the date till then ok?
[11:14] 18andabove: lets see if he remebers..
[11:15] lola: ok