Friday, April 18, 2008

1 Trick To Eliminate Approach Anxiety

One time when I was in High School, there
was this girl...

She was a pretty girl. Blonde and bubbly
and a lot of fun. She was the type of
girl who really lit up a room the moment
she walked in.

This girl also went to my church. So between
school and mass, I had plenty of opportunities
to approach her.

But I didn't.

Then, one day, we were partnered in a class
and got to talking. As I walked her to her
next class, she began lamenting the fact that
she didn't get to go to the winter dance,
which had just passed the weekend before.
Turns out no one asked her!

When I told her I didn't go either, she asked
me "Why not?" to which I replied "I didn't
have a date."

Then she said (and I'll never forget this)
"Well, if you had asked me, I'd have gone
with you."

"Really?" I said.

"Yeah, in fact I was hoping you would, but
you never seemed that interested in me."

When this happened, I was FLOORED. Here was
a beautiful girl, who would have been delighted
to go to a school dance with me - and I was
finding out much too late to do anything about
it!

All because I was too afraid to approach her.

I'm not alone. So many guys suffer from the
"Approach Anxiety" fear.

How many times have you let your chance with
a girl pass you by because you were too afraid
to talk to her?

More than you can count, I'm willing to bet!

The cold, hard facts are, if you want to have
true success with women:

* You need to meet lots of them.
* You need to have no fear of rejection.
* You need to be able to approach a woman
the moment you see her.
* You need to be able to engage her instantly
in conversation.
* You need to have powerful confidence in
yourself
* You need to be able to take action when
opportunity presents itself.

If you can do all these things, you can attract
any woman you want.

Joseph Matthews

Bizlancer, Inc.
8350 Wilshire Blvd.
Suite 200
Beverly Hills, CA 90211

4 comments:

  1. Hey there! Just wanted to thank you for stopping by my blog. I'm loving yours already!!!

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  2. you forgot something: they have to be FINE! :)

    nice blog hon.

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  3. lol @ Honeywell's comment.

    BTW, first time here!

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  4. @ SHAYWUN, I'M REALLY GRATEFUL

    @ HONEYWELL, MOST DEF...THATS REALLY IMPT

    @ SOLOMONSYDELLE, THANKS FOR COMING OVER

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