Out of all the obstacles for dating, the
biggest one is being TOO BUSY.
The stresses of Modern Life can really become
overwhelming. We have to go to work. We have
to pick up the groceries. We have to help
our best friend move into a new place. We have
to take the car in for a tune up...
Before you know it, your responsibilities pile
up so quickly, something has to go by the wayside
to make time for you to take care of the important
And your SOCIAL LIFE is usually the first casualty.
Before long, you just start thinking to yourself
"I just don't have time for women right now."
And you go on with your life, too busy to
even think about it.
You let untold opportunities pass you by, as
your mind focuses on annother thing.
But then, suddenly, one day, you realize you're
LONELY. That you want a great woman in your
life. However, you're STILL just as busy as
always. And now, trying to find a woman - on
top of everything else - makes you even BUSIER.
So your busy schedule, coupled with the hardships
of dating, such as flaky women, rejection, late
nights out at the clubs, and so forth - begins to
wear on you.
So what's a busy guy to do, if he still wants
to find a great woman?
Well, here are a few tips...
First of all, look at what's making you so busy!
Often times, the stuff that takes up so much of
your time are the little things that aren't that
Things like doing laundry, washing your car,
grocery shopping, going to the bank, etc. are
all examples of the little things.
Sure, they are important! And they need to be
done. But there's lots of little things that
you can put off or get other people to take
care of for you.
Sometimes you can find a service that actually
delivers your groceries to your home, so you
don't have to go to the store.
There are full service laundromats where you can
drop off your clothes and have someone else wash
them for you.
There are lots of other services out there nowadays
that can make your life much easier by taking care
of the little things for you.
But more than that, it's important to set aside
at least 1-2 days a week where you do NOTHING
but things you want to do.
People need free time. A time to relax! So if
you're not taking at least one day a week just
for yourself, you're going to burn out. Use that
day to go out and meet some new women, or go on
Also - use passive, convenient methods to meet
new women while you are busy! Internet dating
is a great example of this. You can go on
an internet dating website, and create a profile,
and when you have a few extra minutes during your
day, hop on the computer and start emailing some
Before long, you'll be getting dates set up even
WHILE you are busy!
What's more, get personal business cards made up,
with your name, phone number, email address, and
MySpace page on it. (If you don't have a MySpace
page, go there now and create one. it's free and
takes no time at all.)
When you meet a girl you like throughout your day,
hand her one of your cards, and TELL HER to add you
as a friend on MySpace. Every girl nowadays has
MySpace, or Facebook, so this will help you keep in
touch with them.
There are lots of things a busy guy can do to keep
his social life alive and well. He just has to
remember to find the time to DO them.
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