Tuesday 22nd July 2008 (1st Dates)

The Big Two

Okay so you finally got her number and you invited her out on a date...she just said yes and then what?

Every one knows about "The Big Two". These are the normal/safe dates. They aren't very creative, but they are universally accepted:

A Movie - Inviting someone to a movie is definitely safe. It is probably the #1 first date. One good way to make it a little interesting is to let your date choose the film, or put a bunch of movie names in a hat and pick one at random when you get together. If you choose a movie you won't have to say anything once the movie starts. That can be a real relief if you find you are both tongue-tied.And going to the movies costs an arm.lol

A nice dinner - Another classic. As mentioned above, dinner out means that you are going to have to think of something to talk about for an hour or two. Sometimes that can be hard, especially on the first date. One way to lessen that problem is to go on a double date. If you go out to dinner you will have to carry a conversation all night long. That can be tough sometimes, especially on the first date.

Every one knows i do my things differently...i’d want the event to be memorable...
So my own dates are usually:

Getting ice cream together, shey i told u i had a sweet tooth.

Travelling on very short notice.

I love going to the museum too, if she’s interested means she’ll prolly be intellectual.

Also going on volunteer activities together shows she’ll care for more than my money.

Once we went kart racing, i practically injured an instructor...it was great we cheering each other on.

If you cant think of anythingelse, just do THE BIG TWO